10 Points to best answer? Should I Break up with my New Boyfriend and go back with my Ex.? I can't stop crying?

My Ex Boyfriend Justin and I broke up, well, sorta had a big falling out in Feb. We had a very heated argument. I used to feel like My Ex Boyfriend was in some ways Crazy. He was very Charismatic, and handsome, but behind closed doors, I felt like he was micro-managing me, and It made our relationship go downhill fast. I broke things off without any closure from him, he tried to contact me but I ignored all his attempts.

My new boyfriend, And I are starting to have some major issues that’s beginning to make me feel depressed about. For example , my new boyfriend is Unemployed, and has apparently given up on work. I have to pay for everything out of my pocket. He lives with his mother and shares a car with her. At first I felt like Maybe I could help him find a job or help him become self sufficient, but it seems like he really has no ambition. My Ex-Boyfriend was a serious Go-Getter, When it came to work, he was smart like noone I’ve ever seen. He shot Threw the Ranks at AT&T from Sales guy to District manager in under 3 years. My Ex also had a internet Business, building websites for small businesses that he did on the side outside of his work with AT&T. A lot of times I would go to his office at AT&T and he would be there at his office working on something completely unrelated with AT&T. It used to drive me crazy, it seemed like he was so driven by money that In my mind I felt like it would be the end of him someday. My father really liked how he was constantly in the mix of things, even when he was not at work, he was always working, I hated it, but wish my new boyfriend had 1/4th of the drive he had.

Also, i work out a lot. A few hours per day. My new boyfriend often tells me I need to take a shower, or that I’m too sweaty. When I give him a kiss after seeing him, maybe after leaving the Gym. He will push me away and say " Gosh your Wet". When I was with my ex, he never said anything like that… ( Maybe he was just nasty) But my ex used to do things like Pop up on me at the gym, and he would whisper in my ear things like, " I like it when you’re all sweaty" or " i want some of this sweaty….." At the time I thought it was kinda freaky, But now I really miss that so much. About him

Also, another thing that really gets me about my new boyfriend. I realize now that he’s very soft, he has a great body. My Current boyfriend is in good shape don’t get me wrong. But he’s lazy. And if Push came to shove, I don’t know how he would hold up defending me or my kids. My Ex boyfriend was very cut throat, with business, and with a real life threat. He boxed his way threw college and was fearless. My son’s Original father / sperm doner was abusive to us. My son’s used to always say what they loved about my ex-, was that if their father tried to hurt them, he would beat them up! I’m Crying right now as I type this. … One thing i knew when I was with him, was that he would kill someone if they ever put their hands on me or my sons. I dont’ care if the other person had a gun or a knife, my ex wouldn’t be phased. I don’t feel this way with my new boyfriend.

Yesterday while I was out with my Current boyfriend, we went to a small restaurant here in our city. We walk in and sat down, Guess who’s sitting next to us? My Ex and someone else from AT&T. He was finishing a Beer and I feel like he quickly left because either he was uncomfortable, or didn’t want to make me uncomfortable. I didn’t look at him, I pretended not to notice him but my boyfriend said he made eye contact with him and he smiled. I can’t help but wonder whats going on with him? what was he doing there and where was he going? I can’t help but wonder If I made a Mistake.